Behind the success story of being adopted into a family I had no idea about, being fostered by a white woman in another world, a white man's culture, struggling to be a good wife, mother and becoming a successful career woman lies the pain, sorrow, all the agony, hurt and struggle in life to be oneself, to be who you want to be. To maintain your identity and integrity despite all the shame, situations and circumstances Veronica, the Author made it through. Thus, life is meant to be tough, but God had created you to manage it, one's life more effectively and live the kind of life you want to live, to be who and what you want to be in life. Nobody will change that as the power is in your own hands. And, always remembering that there is an Almighty God who created you and knew you. Therefore, you should always seek God first no matter what to know His will and purpose upon your life. As Jeremiah 1:5 says God formed you, knew you, anointed you and sanctified you to be His prophet like He said to His prophet Jeremiah. This is the true meaning of life when you know God's true will and purpose upon your own individual life. Then, love, joy, peace, long suffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control, the nine fruits of the Holy Spirit (Galatians 5:22) will be restored upon your life. These are the gifts from God that money cannot buy. Peace be with you and glory be to God.